You can't win. People have been so supportive of my achievements throughout this process. However, within the last month or so, I have noticed more people are now commenting to me not to lose too much. Just today, I saw someone at work (who is naturally a size 4 - I hate you) and she commented that I was wasting away. I take those comments as compliments (choosing to ignore that the choice of using negative words is probably a passive aggressive snottiness). The worst was when someone flat out told me I wouldn't be attractive as a size 4 so watch out for that!
It is beginning to bother me. I am a size 12 - trust me I have plenty to lose still. I am not anorexic here! Before, I definitely had a few to lose but now that I am losing it people are telling me to stop? Is it because seeing me take control and make healthy choices makes them uncomfortable? This is not about them.
Alas, you just can't win....
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